Cabrera seems more up my alley than Benatar. However, the problem with someone like Cabrera is that his ethics, based on what I know, is grounded in a branch of philosophy (phenomenology and existentialism) which is a bit more obscure than it needs to be for someone interested in antinatalism. I can already tell that Benatar is much more approachable than Cabrera, which is something of a virtue. The latter will probably only appeal to those who are already interested in Continental philosophy.
I still think Ligotti's
CATHR is the best available text concerned (in part) with antinatalism. It's intelligently written, accessible, and entertaining. The simple fact is that Ligotti is much better at expressing himself than pretty much any academic. My only "complaint" is that he didn't cut the book in half and devote the rest of his creative energies to another collection of short stories.